30 days of kink: Day 14

How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

My fantasy BDSM has been similar in many ways to the experiences I have had in the bedroom.  I think the biggest difference has been the limits my body has placed on our play.  Although I want to submit completely, I can’t always take as much pounding or pain as I would like to give.  Because I played for so long on line, I have a very high ideal of how obedient I should be.  I often find it hard to tell my real life limits because I feel like I am disappointing myself and my partner.

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