I was reading an article about safe words today. The topic interested me. The comment at the bottom really made me think. It was saying that pushing limits and safe wording were healthy. Which made me wonder about the security I take in the phrase, “I have never safe worded.” I don’t like safe wording. I don’t like tapping out in a fight. I don’t like saying I can’t jump that high or make that shot. I don’t like the idea that I can’t take the pain.
How will he know my limits if he never pushes me to safe word?