I have ALWAYS had trouble saying no. Don’t get me wrong. I say no quite well outside of the bedroom. No, I can’t attend a meeting with such little notice. No, I don’t want to cook tonight. No, I can’t lend you money again.
But in the bedroom, it is totally different. I love submitting. I love putting his needs first. I can say “no” as a plea or a request but a real “no” just seems to disappear. I guess that makes it all the more important that I am with guys I trust. It is essential that they make sure I don’t hurt myself. It is a requirement that they pay attention because my job is simple. I just submit.