learning together

I know it isn’t exactly a submissive role to be guiding your dominant.  I really enjoyed having a teacher in the Ds life.  It was relaxing to give up the reigns for a while.  It was more than comfortable.  It was sexy to have someone guiding me.  It was amazing.

As I guide him into the conversations that I know are essential, I watch him squirm with discomfort.  But I know that this is a step we have to work through to get to where we both seem to want to go.  I have to take the reigns for a little while and model the questions I hope he will learn.

“Are you okay with this?”  “Do you like the direction our relationship is going?” “Do you like when I do that?”

With a bit of time, I think we will start learning together.

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One thought on “learning together

  1. I really enjoy reading about your accounts of how you are working on changing your relationship with your boyfriend. These little tidbits of information bring me hope that I might be able to do the same. Thank you for sharing.

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