I know it isn’t exactly a submissive role to be guiding your dominant. I really enjoyed having a teacher in the Ds life. It was relaxing to give up the reigns for a while. It was more than comfortable. It was sexy to have someone guiding me. It was amazing.
As I guide him into the conversations that I know are essential, I watch him squirm with discomfort. But I know that this is a step we have to work through to get to where we both seem to want to go. I have to take the reigns for a little while and model the questions I hope he will learn.
“Are you okay with this?” “Do you like the direction our relationship is going?” “Do you like when I do that?”
With a bit of time, I think we will start learning together.